Where did we come from-Who are we -Why are we here?
" 12 STEPS FOR SELF CARE"
If it feels wrong, don't do it
Say "exactly" what you mean
Don't be a people pleaser
Trust your instincts
Never speak bad about yourself
Never give up on your dreams
Don't be afraid to say "N0"
Don't be afraid to say "YES"
Be kind to yourself
Let go of what you can't control
Stay away from drama and negativity
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE
"Make peace with silence, and remind yourself that it is in this space that you'll come to remember your spirit. When you're able to transcend an aversion to silence, you'll also transcend many other miseries. And it is in this silence that the remembrance of God will be activated."
by Wayne W. Dyer
"All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with
another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change
you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you
are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or
frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about
something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it
is about you that is making you unhappy. "
by Wayne Dyer
"Conflict cannot survive without your participation."
by Wayne Dyer
"If you knew who walked beside you at all times, on the path that you have chosen, you could never experience fear or doubt again."
by Wayne Dyer
"Let there be spaces in your togetherness, and let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup. Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf. Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone, Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music. Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping. For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts. And stand together, yet not too near together: For the pillars of the temple stand apart, And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow."
By Kahlil Gibran
"The secret of change, is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new."
"When your world moves too fast and you lose yourself in the chaos, introduce yourself to each colour of the sunset. reacquaint yourself with the earth beneath your feet. Thank the air that surrounds you with every breath you take. Find yourself in the appreciation of life."
By Christie Ann Martine
"Three things cannot be long hidden: the sun, the moon and the truth"
"Give up defining yourself - to yourself or to others. You won't die. You will come to life. And don't be concerned with how others define you. When they define you, they are limiting themselves, so it's their problem. Whenever you interact with people, don't be there primarily as a function or a role, but as the field of conscious Presence. You can only lose something that you have, but you cannot lose something that you are."
by Eckhart Tolle
"Being spiritual has nothing to do with what you believe and everything to do with your state of consciousness."
by Eckart Tolle
"The more you know yourself, the more clarity there is. Self-knowledge has no end - you don't come to an achievement, you don't come to a conclusion. It is an endless river."
by Jiddu Krishnamurti
"Empathy is simply listening, holding space, without judgement, emotionally connecting and communicating that incredible healing message of - 'you're not alone' "
"The world is indeed full of peril and in it there are many dark places. But still there is much that is fair. And though in all lands, love is mingled with grief, it still grows, perhaps, the greater."
by JJR Tolkien
"Hard work is not the path to Well-Being. Feeling good is the path to Well-Being. You don't create through action; you create through vibration. And then, your vibration calls action from you.
by Abraham Hicks
7 Chakras 7 Notes
A very interesting video by Ryan R about the 7 chakras and 7 notes linked to these. It has been done with love and compassion. A good daily practise to add to your 12 steps of self care. It seems to be doing something and it feels good!
"In a dream in a vision of the night
when deep sleep falls upon men,
whilst slumbering upon their beds,
then he opens the ears of men
and seals their instruction."
Book of Job 33:15-16
"For as this appalling ocean, surrounds the verdant land,
so in the soul of man, lies one insular Tahiti,
full of peace and joy, but encompassed by
all of the horrors of the half-lived life."
by Herman Melville from Moby Dick
"I gave a beggar from my little store
from my well earned gold.
He spent the shining ore
and came again, again and again
still hungry as before.
I gave a thought.
And with this thought of mine
he found himself
the man supreme divine.
He glows, enriched with blessings
as never yet before
and now he begs
for earthly things no more."
"A merry heart doeth good like a medicine:
but a broken spirit drieth the bones."
"Life is Like a Cup of Coffee. Various different cups on the table. All the nice ones taken up. All the plain and cheap ones left. Everyone eyeing each other's cup up to see who has the best one. Life is the coffee, the jobs and money. The positions in Society are the cups. They are just the tools to hold and contain life. And the type of cup we have doesn't define nor change the quality of life we live. Sometimes by concentrating only on the cup we fail to enjoy the coffee. Savour the coffee, not the cup! The happiest people don't have the best of everything, they just make the best of everything. Live Simply, Speak Kindly, Care deeply, Love generously."
"For those who think they have the mandate on truth and knowledge
are shipwrecked by the laughter of the Gods."
by Albert Einstein
"Many people especially ignorant people want
to punish you for speaking the truth, for being correct, for being you.
Never apologise for being correct or for being years ahead of your time.
If you are right and you know it, speak your mind.
Even if you are a minority of one, the truth is still the truth."
By Mahatma Gandhi
Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished" by Lao Tzu
"The meaning of life is to find your gift.
The purpose of life is to give it away"
by Pablo Picasso
"A natural mind is empty and an empty mind is a natural high" by Mooji
"Knowing others is intelligence;
Knowing yourself is true wisdom.
Mastering others is strength;
Mastering yourself is true power"
by Lao Tzu - Tao Te Ching
"There are many paths to enlightenment.
Be sure to take one with a heart."
by Lao Tzu
"To be kind is more important than to be right.
Many times what people need is NOT a brilliant mind that speaks
but a SPECIAL heart that listens"
"Yesterday I was clever and wanted to change the world. Today I am wise and I am changing myself." by Rumi
"Stop chasing what your mind wants
you will get what your soul needs."
"Again your attention is called to the wise words in the Bible,
Proverbs, chapter 16, verse 32:
"He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty;
and he that ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city."
From Stories The Feet Can Tell, Stories The Feet Have Told
by Eunice Ingham
"Respond intelligently even to unintelligent treatment" by Lao Tzu
"Drop the need to be noticed. Detach from the celebrity obsessed world and seek obscurity. Let life flow to you. True nobility is about being better than you used to be. Humility frees you from the 'notice me'. Seek nothing for attention and give anonymously." by Wayne Dyer
"With everything that has happened to you
you can either feel sorry for yourself
or treat what has happened as a gift.
Everything is either an opportunity to grow
or an obstacle to keep you from growing."
by Wayne Dyer
"Speak in such a way that others love to listen to you.
Listen in such a way that others love to speak to you."
"Everything we do is infused with the energy with which we do it. If we are frantic, life will be frantic. If we are peaceful, life will be peaceful. And so our goal in any situation becomes inner peace." by Marianne Williamson
"Be Like Water -
The Highest good is like water.
Water gives life to the world
but does not strive."
by Lao Tzu
"Face your fears. Take that leap of faith. Doing the thing that scares you most is usually the thing you most need TO DO." By Kirit Pankhania
"Flow with whatever may happen and let your mind be free. Stay centred by accepting whatever you are doing. This is the ultimate." Lao Tzu
"The Universe is not outside of you.
Look inside yourself;
everything that you want you already are."
"Suffering has a noble purpose: The evolution of consciousness and the burning up of Ego." Eckart Tolle
"Everyday think as you wake up, today I am fortunate to be alive.
I have a precious human life, I am not going to waste it.
I am going to use all my energies to develop myself,
to expand my heart out to others;
to achieve enlightenment for the benefit of all beings.
I am going to have kind thoughts towards others.
I am not going to get angry or think badly about others.
I am going to benefit others as much as I can."
Dalai Lama XIV
"When you think everything is someone else's fault, you will suffer a lot. When you realize that everything springs only from yourself you will learn both peace and joy." His Holiness the 14th Dalai Lama
"Inhale compassion exhale love,
inhale love exhale peace,
inhale peace exhale compassion."
"You are not here to change the world. The world is here to change you." Shantideva
"When you change the way you look at things,
the things you look at change."
"Be happy for no reason like a child. If you are happy for a reason, you are in trouble, because that reason can be taken away from you." by Deepak Chopra
"Paths are many - Truth is one." Unknown
"Enlightenment, Joy and Peace can never be given to you by another. The well is inside you." by Thich Nhat Hanh
"Don't regret knowing the people that came into your life.
Good people give you happiness.
Bad ones give you experience.
The worst ones give you lessons.
And the best ones give you memories."
"We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think. When the mind is pure, joy follows like a shadow that never leaves." by Buddha
"If you want to know me, look inside your heart" by Lao Tzu
"Truth always wins" by Mahatma Gandhi
Act with Love,
Check your Motives,
Watch your Attitude,
"To attain knowledge add things everyday;
To attain wisdom remove things everyday"
by Lao Tzu
"We cannot solve problems with the same thinking
we used when we created them"
by Albert Einstein
"If you make friends with yourself you will never be alone" Unknown
"You are cut off from Being as long as your mind takes up all your attention. When this happens - and it happens continuously for most people - you are not in your body. The mind absorbs all your consciousness and transforms it into mind stuff. You cannot stop thinking. Compulsive thinking has become a collective disease. Your whole sense of who you are is then derived from mind activity. Your identity, as it is no longer rooted in Being, becomes a vulnerable and ever-needy mental construct, which creates fear as the predominant underlying emotion. The one thing that truly matters is then missing from your life: awareness of your deeper self your invisible indestructible reality. To become conscious of Being you need to reclaim consciousness from the mind. This is one of the most essential tasks on your spiritual journey. It will free vast amounts of consciousness that previously had been trapped in useless and compulsive thinking. A very effective way of doing this is simply to take the focus of your attention away from thinking and direct it into your body, where Being can be felt in the first instance as the invisible energy field that gives life to what you perceive as the physical body. by Eckhart Tolle
"The more you try to understand enlightenment,
the more it will elude you. And that is because enlightenment
does not come from the mind. It comes from 'No-Mind'.
It comes from just Being. You are already enlightened.
You just have to realize it to allow it into your experience"
by Anita Moorjani
"Thinking has become a disease. Disease happens when things get out of balance. For example, there is nothing wrong with cells dividing and multiplying in the body, but when this process continuous in disregard of the total organism, cells proliferate and we have disease. The mind is a superb instrument if used rightly. Used wrongly, however, it becomes destructive. To put it more accurately, it is not so much that you use your mind wrongly - you usually don't use it at all. It uses you. This is disease. You believe that you are your mind. This is the delusion. The instrument has taken you over. by Eckhart Tolle
"Be the living expression of God's kindness;
kindness in your face,
kindness in your eyes,
kindness in your smile,
kindness in your warm greeting."
"Spread love everywhere you go.
Let no one ever come to you
without leaving happier."
by Mother Teresa
"There is no way to happiness - happiness is the way." by Thich Nhat Hanh
"When you love someone,
the best thing you can offer is your presence.
How can you love if you are not there."
by Thich Nhat Hanh
Life is available only in the present.
That is why we should walk in such a way
that every step can bring us
to the here and now."
by Thich Nhat Hanh
"What is the Dow? the Dow that can be understood is not the eternal cosmic Dow, just as an idea that can be expressed in words, is not the infinite idea and yet this inevitable Dow is the source of all spirit and matter expressing itself, it is the mother of all created things. Not to desire material things is to know the freedom of spirituality and to desire them is to suffer the limitations of matter. Yet these two things, matter and spirit so different in nature have the same origin. This unity is the mystery of mysteries and the gateway to spirituality." by Lao Tzu